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Wednesday 20 August, 2008
By  srinivas   16:14 | 23/Jul/2007 |  2 Comment(s)
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hurt

hi everyone,

many a times we go thru the emotion called "hurt ". for all of us the HURT emotion is one of the most unbearable thing. it is because of the close relation we maintain with our spouse,family,friends,relatives,and collegues in the office ,we tend to enter into an open discussion first,which later on ,turns into an argument.

the otherside may behave so unexpectedly that suddenly u will feel that the discussion is opening up some of the darker sides of ur relation and that is the time u begin to feel the burning of heart .

better be wiseful to close the discussion at the earliest possible and YES do not try to show ur authority by shouting. instead , be composed ,calm and quietly wait for the right time to express your side of the story.

in all probabilities, the otherside will be listening because they remember what they have OVER talked before . be fair and be short and the result will show up ur substance.

that is power of RELATION.enjoy it !!!!!!!!!!

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