hi everyone,
i was out of my city and thus the delay in post.
all of us have busy schedules,heavy targets,timeless days,and heads full of stress.the busy life we are "enjoying" is bound to make us more self centered ,more worried and much more tired.
in these situations it is rather very difficult for any of us to look at the problems others involved into.it is because we are also in similar troubles more often.
however,a little bit of ur time when spent on others will fetch a return of time from them to U.especially when you are unable to concetrate on your own problem or when you are in a confusion state of mind to finish your own activity, keep it a side for a little of time and spend that time with your team members , collegues ,or neighbours and help them in finishing what they intend completing and you can see the relief in their eyes and approach.
the truth is that for your own problem you need 99% of your energy and presence , whereas if it is for others you have to put 1 to 10 % of effort because rest of the 90 - 99% effort is their own.
inreturn you would find the 1 to 10% of the support from the one you helped .
this is the thread that seams team building and help us build human relations.
try once and we all are here to share the experience.all the best.